Cyber Dream
April 22, 2006 by haziamyperspective
The beauty of being single now is the ability to enjoy ‘cinta zaman internet’ (love in the internet era). I pitied my friends who complained about losing their true loves due to the bare technology of Jurassic Park, hehe…
I’ve had a few but this one was unforgettable. After chatting online for a while, the guy of my dream decided to cross border and came to see me. Being in art marketing, he was inteligent, creative and ’sizzling’, he was like a dose of sunshine in the morning. He was techy and read literature but at the same time, enjoyed clubbing and going to the beach. When we first knew each other, he 
was preparing for Biathlon 2006 - yes, the swimming & running competition. He seemed perfect, like a dream.
I got a week off that Chinese New Year and was prepared to meet up with him for a few days if we hit it off. Both of us were very nervous. He was confident but not dominant, spontaneous but not clueless…I was instantly attracted to him. He was really sweet, insisted that we went somewhere quiet so that we could talk. And we did for hours. I reckoned that I asked the right questions early because he was everything I thought he would be.
It wasn’t the same with him though. He was bothered by differences in status and position, among other unspoken things. That I didn’t see coming. When we parted and agreed to meet the next day, something in me felt that that was not going to happen. He called me the next evening to cancel dinner…I cried non-stop for 2 days. I had a dreadful feeling like I’ve just lost The One. To be more exact, he slipped right through my fingers…
Hootie, wherever you are, hope you found what you were looking for:)
